40 Questions To Ask Your Crush

Questions To Ask Your Crush

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If you have a crush on someone, you are going to want to get to know more about them. The best way to do this is to ask questions. By asking your crush questions, you will get to know more about them, and they will see that you are interested in them. When it comes to asking questions, you can’t just ask anything. If you ask your crush what their favorite color is or their favorite animal, you are going to seem lame. These are questions that little kids ask each other.

When it comes to asking questions, believe it or not, there is a science to it. If you are going to learn the most about your crush and if you are going to get them interested in you, you are going to need to ask different types of questions. The best types of questions to ask include:

 

  • Deep questions
  • Intimate questions
  • Funny questions
  • Freaky questions
  • Flirty questions

If you aren’t sure about what questions to ask, don’t worry. We are going to give you some great examples of questions from each category. You will have more than enough questions that you need to get to know your crush and to let them know that you are crushing on them.

 

Deep Questions To Ask Your Crush

 

As important as it is to keep things fun and light with your crush, you are also going to get deep and serious. When you show your crush that you can be serious, they will start to realize that you have a crush on them. Here are a few questions that will show your crush that you are serious and that will help you learn more about them.

 

 

  1. What Is One Thing You Wish You Never Did? This is an excellent question to get to know your crush more. We all have something that we have done and regret in our lives. This question will help you learn more about your crush. It will also be a great conversation starter.

 

  1. When You Are Your Happiest, What Are You Doing? This question can help a lot when you are ready to make plans with your crush. You can take note of the activity they mentioned, and make plans to do that same activity later on. If your crush is the happiest doing this activity, you will score major points if you are doing it with them.

 

  1. What’s More Important To You, Love Or Money? This is an essential question because it will let you know if you are wasting your time with your crush. If they say that money is more important than love, you can expect to be dating a workaholic in the future. If you are the same way, it will work out great. If you are a true romantic and your crush prefers money over love, the relationship won’t last.

 

  1. If You Won the Lottery, What Is the First Thing You Would Do? This question is a great conversation starter. It will also help you to learn a bit about your crush. If they say that they would buy their parents a new home or a sibling a new car, it will show that they are generous. If they go on about buying jewelry, cars, mansions, and clothes for themselves, you could be dealing with a materialistic person. This would e good to know ahead of time.

 

  1. Do You Believe In Fate? This is a good question because it can tell you if your crush is romantic. Most romantic people believe in fate. They believe that everything happens for a reason, and we are destined to find out true love. If your crush doesn’t believe in fate, they probably aren’t the romantic type.

 

  1. How Do You Picture Your Future? This is a good question because it will show you the path that your crush is one and where they want to go. If they talk about school and a successful career, they have a good head on their shoulders. If they talk about being rich and famous for doing nothing important, they have their head in the clouds.

 

  1. What Bad Habits Do You Have? Everyone has at least one bad habit. This is a great question to ask your crush. It will help you learn a bit about them, and its a great conversation starter.

 

  1. Do You Believe In Heaven? Asking a person about their beliefs regarding the afterlife is about as deep as you can get. The deeper you get with your crush, the stronger your bond will become.

 

  1. What Is the Best Gift You Ever Received? This will tell you a bit about your crush. When you know what his best gift was, you will know what types of things your crush is into.

 

  1. What Is Your Biggest Fear? We all have fears. This is a great question to ask your crush, and it could be the start of a deep and meaningful conversation.

 

Intimate  Questions To Ask Your Crush

 

Once you get passed the deep questions, it is time to get to the intimate questions. These are things that you need to know to be sure that this is the right person for you. When you ask intimate questions, you will learn more about your crush’s romantic history and their romantic hopes for the future. This is really important if you are going to end up together. Also, it will show them that maybe you are looking for more than just a friendship.

 

 

  1. What Was Your Longest Relationship? This question is crucial because it will give you an idea as to whether your crush is a long-term relationship type or if they are just trying to have fun. If they tell you their longest relationship was a year or more, they are the settling down type. If they say a month or two, you shouldn’t expect a long term commitment.

 

  1. What Are You Looking For In a Boyfriend/Girlfriend? This question is very important because it will let you know whether or not you are your crush’s type. If they describe a person that is the exact opposite of you, pursuing your crush would be a waste of time. If your crush describes qualities that you possess, your chances of having a relationship with them are pretty good.

 

  1. Have You Ever Cheated On Anyone? This question is pretty personal, but it is a great question to ask. If your crush is honest, they will tell you the truth. Even if they say that they have cheated in the past, it shouldn’t be a deal-breaker. We have all made mistakes, and most people learn from them. If this is a question that you would rather not answer, you probably shouldn’t ask your crush. There is a good chance that they will ask you after. If you don’t want to answer, don’t ask the question.

 

  1. When Was Your First Sexual Experience? This question won’t help you decide if you and your crush have a future, but it will help you get to know a bit about their past. Any intimate discussions you have will strengthen your bond.

 

  1. Why Did You And Your Last Boyfriend/Girlfriend Break Up? You can get a lot out of a question like this. When you find out the reason they broke up, you will be able to tell whether or not they have excess baggage that they are holding onto. If they have baggage, you might want to think twice about pursuing them.

 

  1. When Was Your Last Relationship? This is an important question because it will let you know if your crush has had time to get over their ex. If their relationship just ended a few weeks earlier, there is a chance that you would be a rebound if you got together. The answer to this question can help you decide how to go forward with your crush.

 

  1. How Far Do You Go On a First Date? This question will tell you a bit about your crush, as long as they are honest. Even if they aren’t, it will start a deep, intimate conversation.

 

  1. Who Is the Person Who Hurt You the Most? This question will help you learn more about your crush, and it will also show them that you care about them. If they see that you are interested in something so personal, they will know that you want to be more than friends. This could be precisely what you need to take your friendship to the next level.

 

  1. When Was the Last Time You Had Sex? This is an excellent question to ask after you asked when your crush and their ex broke up. If the last time they had sex was way after they broke up with their previous boyfriend/girlfriend, it tells you that they don’t need to be in a relationship to have sex. This is important information if you are going to try and have a relationship with them.

 

  1. When Was the Last Time You Cried? This question will tell you a bit about the things that upset your crush, and it will show them that you are interested in their feelings.

 

 

Funny Questions To Ask Your Crush

 

Now that you have gotten passed the deep and intimate questions, it is time to have a little bit of fun. Your crush isn’t going to want to be more than just friends with someone who is deep and serious all the time. When you ask your crush funny questions, they will get to see the light, fun side of you.

 

 

  1. How Do You Position the Toilet Paper? We all have a certain way that we like the toilet paper. Some like it to come over the top, and some like it to go under. This question won’t help you learn everything about your crush, but it is a funny question.

 

  1. If You Could Hang Out With One Cartoon Character For the Day, Who Would It Be? This question is funny because who imagines hanging out with cartoon characters. This question will show your crush that you are fun, and it can start a really great conversation.

 

  1. If You Could Have Any Superpower, What Would It Be? This is a fun question, and it can get you both thinking. It will also give you a chance to choose your superpower of choice.

 

  1. Do You Believe In the 5 Second Rule? This question doesn’t need an honest answer. Its purpose is to make your crush laugh. Everyone loves to laugh, so asking this question will make a good impression.

 

  1. What Is the Dumbest Thing You Have Ever Done? This question is great because if your crush is honest and has a good sense of humor, you can laugh together about their answer. You can also tell them the dumbest thing that you have ever done. This will start a fun and interesting conversation.

 

  1. Would You Rather Be a Cat or Dog and Why? This question isn’t going to unlock all of the secrets about your crush, but it is a funny question that can spark a great debate if the two of you have different answers.

 

  1. If You Could Only Have One Condiment For the Rest Of Your Life, What Would It Be? This is a fun question that would require a bit of thought. You and your crush can go through all of the popular condiments, and figure out which ones you can live without. It is a topic for a light, fun conversation.

 

  1. What Song Would Be On the Soundtrack Of Your Life? This question is fun, and it can also tell you a lot about your crush. For example, if they choose, I Will Always Love You by Whitney Houston, they are a romantic. If they choose I Want Your Sex by George Michael, they probably aren’t looking for anything too serious. If they choose The Macarena by Los Del Rio, they have an incredible sense of humor.

 

  1. Do You Have a Pet Dinosaur? This question is ridiculous, which is why it is great. Your crush will see that everything with you isn’t deep, and you can be silly.

 

  1. How Many Walkers Have You Killed? How Many People Have You Killed? If your crush is a huge fan of The Walking Dead, this question is excellent. Anyone who has seen the show knows that it is a question that the main characters ask. If you aren’t sure if your crush watches the show, don’t ask. It will probably freak them out, and you will never hear from them again.

 

 

Freaky Questions To Ask Your Crush

 

If you want your crush to know that you are interested in being more than just friends, you need to show a little bit of your freaky side. You can do this by asking the right questions.

 

 

  1. Have You Ever Sexted Anyone? This question will let you know a bit about where your crush’s freak level is at, and if you will be expected to do it if you end up being more than friends.

 

  1. When Was the Last Time You Self-Pleasured? This question will probably make your crush a little embarrassed, and they might even blush a bit. That is what makes this question so great. If will also give you an idea of your crush’s sex drive.

 

  1. Who Was the Last Person Who Saw You Naked? This question will give you an idea of who your crush had relations with last. As long as they don’t say that it was the whole team in the locker room after practice, you can get some good intel with this question.

 

  1. Have You Ever Had a One Night Stand? This question opens up the sex conversation, and it will also give you an idea of what type of person your crush is when it comes to sex.

 

  1. What Is the Craziest Place You Ever Had Sex? This question is great because it will show you how adventurous your crush is.

 

Flirty Questions To Ask

Not every fun conversation has to be about sex. There are plenty of questions that you can ask that will show your crush in no uncertain terms that you are trying to flirt with them.

 

  1. What Would You Do If I Kissed You Right Now? This is an excellent question because the answer will let you know if your friend likes you as a friend or more.

 

  1. How Would You Describe Your Perfect Date? This question will help you learn a bit more about your crush. You will find out what they enjoy and if they are romantic. You should take note of what they say so that if you do get a date with your crush, you can plan the exact same date that they described.

 

  1. Do You Like People Who Make the First Move? This is a really important question. Not only will your crush know that you are flirting with them, but it will also let you know if they will be put off if you do make the first move.

 

  1. Do You Know How Handsome/Beautiful You Are? This question will tell your crush for sure that you are really into them. If you ask this question and they like you, it won’t be long before you have your first date.

 

  1. Will You Go Out With Me? You should only ask this question if you are sure that your crush likes you. You can also ask this if you need to know once and for all if they like you as more than a friend.

 

Final Thoughts

The best way to learn more about your crush is to ask them questions. You don’t need to spend hours interrogating them, asking question after question, but you can bring these questions up during random conversations. These Q&A sessions can be fun and very informative.

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